With all the self help actions no one asks: WHO AM I? This is about creating and maintaining a relationship with yourself. Start with a list of all your positive qualities that have nothing to do with making money. Every day you select at least three of those qualities to apply on behalf of yourself, without hurting anyone in the process. This will help you distinguish between your IMAGE(to please or to impress others) and your IDENTITY (to be the real person and to enhance your growth). Not everyone needs to love you, but you have to earn peoples' RESPECT.
Increased self awareness will help you professionally too!!!