Kerri Myers LPP, CEC, CELC, ELI-MP
Get Your Heart Around IT!!!
Experience of the Heart.. We must get our Heart around it not our Heads!
Many Human Beings are convinced that if we send out love to another and it is not returned by that same person, then Love is lost. What we forget is the fact that the Love we are sending to "the other" is LOVE that is inside of US. When we send Love to another our logic kicks in and expects that same person to love us back in the same way (many times this happens in what we call "romantic love") this is a conditioning pattern. When Love is not returned, we may feel wounded, experience pain, and vow to never love again. The sad news is, in truth, we are only punishing ourselves because in those moments we decide to no longer share the Love that is within and our love becomes stagnant. YET, In the end we discover that logic has no real power over the Heart, the ever expanding Power of Love, because before we know it... Love flows back to us and we are softened once again to let someone new into our lives.
To Share love is so irresistible isn't it??? :)
When we become conscious of the Human Condition we see the play of conditional love and how humans use "love" to control to get what they want or to act out their old pains .. in the acting out of old pains, our unconscious patterns are simply paying themselves out so that we can become clear, heal our past, and grow in consciousness.
When we awaken, we realize that LOVE is beyond the pleasure and pains of relationship, that we can love all of humanity no matter what. We learn that LOVE is sharing WHO we truly are unconditionally with NO EXPECTATION. We come to realize that when we send love to another and they do not reciprocate that perhaps they are closed off to the experience of LOVE due to the pains of their past and conditioning patterns. We begin to expand in Love.
When we see the resistance in another to accept love, we gain insight into their pain and we learn compassion. Through this compassion we bless the other, in Love, and through this act we gain a knowing that LOVE is not stagnant when we send it out.. it only multiples in our lives and comes back to us in new and exciting ways. It is LOVE'S intention to help us grow, to share more and more of who we are, and to give with out fear. The act of giving must be-free and the act of receiving is simply being open to what we deserve. When it is known that we are a giver of LOVE.. Love will return to us in buckets from everywhere ! Always Remember Love is never lost.. it is always within available to us to share in every moment.