Time for an Icon or Archetype Upgrade???
This is a topic that we have talked about before:
How do you think about yourself? What is your self image?
Part of the way we think of ourselves is through the use of icons and archetypes.
Most likely some of your icons and archetypes could use an upgrade.
Let me give you a few examples that I have run across recently:
"Bob" sees himself as a survivor and if you know his history, this is accurate. He has survived some truly rough experiences and has created a good life for himself.
However, in order to be a survivor you need things to survive. So, "Bob" keeps attracting challenges into his life that he must then overcome and survive.
Being a survivor is useful, it just isn't a good final destination. "Bob" needs to upgrade that archetype to being a thriver.
"Sally" thinks of herself as a lighthouse - guiding people and showing them the way.
The problem with this icon is: where are lighthouses typically located? They are in desolate, storm swept, remote areas. They are lonely.
"Sally is lonely." She needs to upgrade her icon.
What if she thought of herself as a big spotlight shining up into the night sky guiding people to a big party. She would have a very different experience of her life.
What are some of your icons and archetypes that could use an upgrade? Are you a martyr, a victim, a lone ranger, a rock, a child, a . . . ? Do these icons and archetypes serve you? If yes, keep them. If not, it's time to upgrade.
How to upgrade your icons and archetypes:
#1 Identify existing icon or archetype.
#2 Figure out what would be a useful upgrade.
#3 Visualize the existing image in the palm of your left hand. Have that image be as bright and clear as you can.
#4 Then visualize the upgrade image in the palm of your right hand. Have that image be as bright and clear as you can.
#5 Go back and forth between the two images several times.
#6 Now slowly place the back of your right hand in the palm of your left hand. As you are doing this, see the image in your left palm begin to fade out and be replaced by the upgrade image in your right palm.
#7 Leave you hands like this until you feel a shift (probably 30 seconds to a minute). Then bring both hands against the center of your chest and leave them there until you feel another shift.
#8 Repeat this exercise 6 times over the next 3 days.
Also you will want to start actively thinking of yourself in terms of the upgrade. ("Bob" would think, I am a thriver. "Sally" would think, I am a spotlight promoting a great party.)
Wishing you great joy and success,